Here’s How To Successfully Pick Up Teen Girls

 

One of the toughest challenges for someone into younger women (aged 18-early 20’s) is successfully landing hookups with these girls. Growing up, all girls ever heard was to stay away from older men, and of course, strangers. But we all know that that advice was long gone by the time these girls reached their teens.

You’d be surprised at the amount of young women who actually like and prefer older men, but sometimes that only includes men who are 4-7 years, maybe 10 if they’re pushing it, older than they are. So what do you do if you don’t make the age cut but want to hook up with these girls?

Here’s what you need to do.

Don’t Try Too Hard

While you will have to be persistent and put a little more effort into landing a hook up with a younger girl than maybe with women your age, you shouldn’t be trying too hard.  This is especially easy if you’re using a teen dating app like teen fuck dates.

This means that you shouldn’t be trying too hard to impress this girl because it’ll quickly turn her off if you’re showing off how much more experienced in life you are, or about your impressive feats that might only be impressive to you. Trying too hard also means attempting to relate to her and her conversations to the point where you sound like Steve Buscemi’s undercover cop character in 30 Rock that infiltrated a high school.

Just be yourself, don’t brag too much or spend the entire time you’re talking discussing things about yourself, and don’t try to belittle her for her age.

Listen To Them

One of the things younger girls hate about guys their age is that they either are terrible communicators or listeners. Everyone hates having to repeat themselves, and girls get extremely turned off by dudes who can’t seem to pay attention to them when they’re talking.

This is also a reason why they like older guys; their maturity and ability to really listen to them is sexy. As long as you pay close attention to her words, are interested in what she’s saying, and respond back with thoughtful words, you’ll easily have her in the palm of your hands.

Tease Them

While you shouldn’t be constantly reminding her of your age difference, or as I said, belittle her for her lack of experience and how much younger she is than you, a little teasing never hurt. Whether it be sexually or playfully, girls still like to see that someone older than them can still have enough fun to hang out with them, and most importantly, have fun in bed.

Show Dominance In Flirting

Since you are the older one here, no girl wants to feel like she’s doing all the work or has to take the lead. While you should leave that option open, you should definitely assert dominance in the sexual relationship, which can be a turn-on for most girls. They like to see this older guy that’s interested in them be able to initiate contact and flirt without being scared, like some boys their age do. Just always remember to make sure every move you make or thing you say is welcomed and wanted by her — that’s also a turn-on.

Be Relaxed

The absolute worst thing you could do when trying to pick up and maintain a hookup relationship with a teen girl is to be clingy or too possessive, Girls don’t want guys their own age to be like this, and they sure as hell don’t want it from a grown man. If you show you want her too much, it’s easy to come off as needy. Instead, be relaxed, keep things casual, and let her decide when she wants to talk.

3 Telltale Signs You Should Ask Her Out Already

Maybe you aren’t sure if she feels the same way and you don’t want to risk ruining the friendship, or you’re afraid she’ll turn you down and then still have to see each other in class. No matter your fear, you’ve found your way to this article for a reason—or should I say, for a girl—and you should probably go ask her out.
Through my own personal experiences and those of my good friends, I have conducted a list of three telltale signs that you’re in the clear to ask her out.
If there is a specific someone you are thinking about right now—whether it is that cute girl from class, the babe from the bar or literally the girl who lives next door—go ask her out already.

Naturally Drawn to Each Other
We’ve all met that person whom we are naturally drawn to. If you haven’t already, you’ll recognize it when it happens.
It’s a very strange, yet comforting feeling. You seem to have just met this person, yet every time you’re in the same general area, you find yourselves chatting away as though you’d been best friends for years.
I remember watching this happen to a friend of mine a few years ago. He met a girl—friend of a friend—and they instantly clicked. Every time they ran into each other at a bar, no matter the place, the time or the occasion, they’d end up sitting or standing close together and just talk between themselves for hours. We would literally just stand there and watch it happen.
Sooner or later, he asked her out. Till this day, we still find them talking together, although much closer now, and just enjoying their natural attraction between each other.
Natural attraction doesn’t lie; it’s merely you trying to help yourself out without even knowing it. So listen to it, and go ask that girl out.

You Make Her Laugh (& vice versa)
One of the most rewarding things for men—in regards to women and not including sex—is making his crush laugh. A man is naturally attracted to a woman who laughs it his jokes, and she may only be laughing at his jokes because she is attracted to him.
No matter the case, a similar sense of humor between two people immediately creates a special bond; especially when those two people are of the opposite sex.
Laughter is a sure sign of pleasure and enjoyment that relates closely to other forms of intimacy. Laughing with one another in itself is a form of intimacy, and it could be the start of something much bigger.
If you find yourself remembering jokes to tell them to her later, tagging her in dank memes you find on social media or merely find yourselves laughing together in everyday conversation, go ask her out.

You Guys “Make Plans” Together
I think we’re all familiar with the, “Oh that sounds fun, we should totally do that sometime,” type of making plans. It’s where you’re in the middle of a conversation, a cool idea comes about through a story and you find yourself excitedly interested and wanting to take action sometime.
What this symbolizes though is a willingness and desire to do things together. No one is going to mention hanging out and doing something together when they wouldn’t want to—they just wouldn’t.
Whether it’s trying a new restaurant in town, going for a bike ride or merely seeing a new movie, take action on this proposed plan and make it happen! Even if your “plans” were extravagant and are unrealistic at this time, such as going on a camping trip or driving to Vegas for the weekend, still make real plans and actually follow through.
You know you want to, or else you wouldn’t be reading this article.

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