One of the toughest challenges for someone into younger women (aged 18-early 20’s) is successfully landing hookups with these girls. Growing up, all girls ever heard was to stay away from older men, and of course, strangers. But we all know that that advice was long gone by the time these girls reached their teens.
You’d be surprised at the amount of young women who actually like and prefer older men, but sometimes that only includes men who are 4-7 years, maybe 10 if they’re pushing it, older than they are. So what do you do if you don’t make the age cut but want to hook up with these girls?
Here’s what you need to do.
Don’t Try Too Hard
While you will have to be persistent and put a little more effort into landing a hook up with a younger girl than maybe with women your age, you shouldn’t be trying too hard. This is especially easy if you’re using a teen dating app like teen fuck dates.
This means that you shouldn’t be trying too hard to impress this girl because it’ll quickly turn her off if you’re showing off how much more experienced in life you are, or about your impressive feats that might only be impressive to you. Trying too hard also means attempting to relate to her and her conversations to the point where you sound like Steve Buscemi’s undercover cop character in 30 Rock that infiltrated a high school.
Just be yourself, don’t brag too much or spend the entire time you’re talking discussing things about yourself, and don’t try to belittle her for her age.
Listen To Them
One of the things younger girls hate about guys their age is that they either are terrible communicators or listeners. Everyone hates having to repeat themselves, and girls get extremely turned off by dudes who can’t seem to pay attention to them when they’re talking.
This is also a reason why they like older guys; their maturity and ability to really listen to them is sexy. As long as you pay close attention to her words, are interested in what she’s saying, and respond back with thoughtful words, you’ll easily have her in the palm of your hands.
While you shouldn’t be constantly reminding her of your age difference, or as I said, belittle her for her lack of experience and how much younger she is than you, a little teasing never hurt. Whether it be sexually or playfully, girls still like to see that someone older than them can still have enough fun to hang out with them, and most importantly, have fun in bed.
Show Dominance In Flirting
Since you are the older one here, no girl wants to feel like she’s doing all the work or has to take the lead. While you should leave that option open, you should definitely assert dominance in the sexual relationship, which can be a turn-on for most girls. They like to see this older guy that’s interested in them be able to initiate contact and flirt without being scared, like some boys their age do. Just always remember to make sure every move you make or thing you say is welcomed and wanted by her — that’s also a turn-on.
The absolute worst thing you could do when trying to pick up and maintain a hookup relationship with a teen girl is to be clingy or too possessive, Girls don’t want guys their own age to be like this, and they sure as hell don’t want it from a grown man. If you show you want her too much, it’s easy to come off as needy. Instead, be relaxed, keep things casual, and let her decide when she wants to talk.